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    January 7, 2013

    Choice, Action and Trust - How it Will Guide You in Sport


    By Suki Chhoeun, Athlete Initiative Founder, MCAC College Wesmen Coach



    The C.A.T. principle helped me create an amazing coaching experience for myself in June 2010 that I want to share with you today.  I know it will help you get closer to what you want, and whether it is the fear of adjusting your shooting technique to wanting to get recruited to play at the next level, changing your offence or just simply wanting to do something you're afraid to do, the CAT principle will guide your growth.





     



    1. What do you want
    from sport or life? Don't be afraid to choose.


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    CHOICE



    What is it that
    you want from coaching? What is it that you want from playing?  When we can answer this question, our focus
    and direction will become more clear.



    In our day
    to day routine, we have the privilege to make independent choices; to choose
    happiness over sadness, being positive versus being negative, having compassion
    over anger and having comforting experiences versus growth experiences.  While it is most common we make choices that
    are within our comfort zone, I'm here to share with you a growth experience of
    mine that changed my life.



    I have
    found that when you simply just decide, there are no shades of grey in the
    decision you choose to make.  Either you
    make the decision or not, there is no "in between."



    If you had
    the choice between: A or B, which would you choose? Here are your options.



    Choice A



    -1 week of
    observing practices with a professional basketball team



    -Q & A
    each day with head coaches and assistant coaches



    or Choice B



    Do the
    samething you do everyday.



    Would you
    agree with me that 99% of us would choose A. 
    While many of us dream we could have an opportunity such as this be
    presented to us, this opportunity became a reality for me in June 2010.



    Not knowing
    what this whole thing would bring, I took it upon myself to create this amazing
    experience.  I chose to create a new
    experience that would help me grow, to see things from a different perspective
    as a coach at the highest level and as a player.  Now, youre probably thinking, you created
    "Choice A" for yourself, and how did you do it?



    How I did
    it brings me to the next principle.



    2. We must not only
    dream but ACT.



    ACTION



    The heart
    and soul of making a decision is action, you guessed it.  Once you make that decision, it has to
    manifest itself and become physical, so whether you're goal setting, or looking
    to accomplish small simple tasks, you know it requires one thing, action.  The doing, not only the thinking and
    writing.  This is the most difficult task
    for many.  This reminds me of deadlines
    on assignments in University, having months to complete the assignment, but not
    beginning until you feel the pressure. 
    According to Mitch Albom,



    "Faith is about
    doing. You are how you act, not just how you believe."



    Mitch Albom
    is right, the power of thinking and believing isn't enough, we must have faith
    in ourselves to act.



    This is how
    it all started:



    In January
    2010, after a two paragraph email outlining my intentions of  "Choice A" to the director of
    basketball operations for the Minnesota Lynx; I stated my purpose, passion and
    mission for growth and development.



     A is for effort right?  Katie Alsdurf, the Director of Basketball
    Operations for the Lynx knew how important this would be and the surreal
    experience began to unfold. I was given the thumbs up at the end of January
    that a week with the Minnesota Lynx to observe practices, Q & A sessions
    were available for me in June.



    AS I'M
    TYPING NOW, I EMAILED KATIE IN CAP LOCKS AND THANKED HER FOR THIS AMAZING
    OPPORTUNITY, I WAS OVERWHELMED WITH JOY.



    I could not
    believe it!  How easy was it to just
    simply ask.  I remember early on in my
    coaching career when a mentor of mine advised, "never be too afraid to ask
    for something, because the worst someone will say is no."  That was was it, the worst someone will say
    is no. 



    These were
    some questions I raised.  What was I
    going to learn from all of this?  Was
    this really going to happen? I hope this doesn't fall through, and could it be
    that much different than University basketball? 
    I have seen CIS Men's and Women's, NCAA Division 1 team's practice and
    now it was time for the pro's.



    Now, for
    those who are unfamiliar with the WNBA, if it's alright with you, I'm going to
    briefly fill you in.  Simply, it mirrors
    the NBA but without the high flying dunks, billion dollar advertising, million
    dollar contracts and major corporate sponsorship. The league consists of 12
    teams and the Minnesota Lynx have been my favorite team since inception of the
    league in 1997.  The Lynx also share the
    Target Center with the NBA's Minnesota Timberwolves.



    This brings
    me to the 3rd principle from this unforgettable experience.



    3. Do you TRUST
    yourself and others around you?


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    TRUST



    The ability
    to completely believe in ourselves is rare, don't you think? I have known and
    coached many athletes who will look for approval first from their coaches and
    second from their teammates.  Remember,
    your self-worth should not come from others approving of you.  For the athletes who are reading this, please
    know that you are valuable and you first have to believe it yourself, and you
    must do the unwilling to make yourself better to help your team, or to make
    next years team, improvement in every way you can. Physical, mental and
    emotional.



    This is
    where trust unfolds; as you know it is needed for anything to function, especially
    when  you're working with other
    people.   Paulo Coelho writes,



        "None of us knows what might happen even
    the next minute, yet still we go forward. Because we trust. Because we have
    Faith."



    Having
    coached basketball from for almost 10 years, trust is the root, the foundation
    and starting point for all successes and failures.  A great leader has the ability to have others
    believe in them, only for the reason they know the leader believes in him/herself.  Think about it, it's rare that we [follow or
    believe in] leaders that don't trust themselves or have confidence or
    competency.



    The Journey



    A month
    prior to the super awesome Minnesota Lynx experience, Katie and I began
    outlining the details of the coaching trip. At the time, I lucked out, I was
    able to stay at my friend Lindsay's apartment who was living in Minneapolis and
    going to school, she was back in B.C for the summer, so I had her apartment for
    the week.  I wanted to be frugal as
    possible on this trip, so there I went, I with drew a few hundred dollars and
    drove  the 7 hour journey toward the big
    city, the Twin Cities.



    The trip
    was everything and more.  Not only did I
    get to observe team practices and have Q & A sessions with the coaches, the
    Lynx staff also provided me with this:



    A video
    session on their opposition with Jim Petersen, 
    (Lynx Assistant coach) who used to play in the NBA, a meet and greet
    with players, shooting around with players before practice, Adidas team gear
    and a game ticket. The value of this was paramount  and cannot be payed back to the Lynx, but
    only my showing loyalty to the team as a fan.


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    I took that
    leap of faith and had trusted that everything I experienced would help me grow
    for the better.  The people I met along
    the way included interns, the male practice players who were all
    ex-NCAA/College players, the amazing and inspiring athletes such as Lindsay
    Whalen, Seimone Augustus who recently won Gold with USA at the London 2012
    Olympics, rebounding queen Rebecca Brunson, Stanford star Candice Wiggins, the
    media personel and best of all, the interaction with the coaching staff each
    day was my favorite part.



    After that
    last practice, I was caught off guard when Cheryl Reeve asked me what I was
    doing there and what "I wanted from all of this."  I really didn't give her an answer to which
    it really had me thinking.  I knew Coach
    Reeves wasn't just talking about being at the practices but what I really
    wanted from coaching.  I went back to the
    apartment after that practice and had that question run through my head a
    hundred times.  What do I truly want from
    coaching? With that said, to achieve any goal worth while takes hardwork,
    extremely hard work.



    The next
    day after practice, my conversation with Coach Reeves was finding out how
    difficult it was to get to that professional level of coaching, including the
    business aspect, cut throat decisions one must make as a general manager,
    dealing with high strung athletes, and why she began coaching, her story.  It was amazing to listen to.  I found that after the trip, my take on
    professional athletes changed.



    What I
    respected the most about professional athletes were their true ability to stay
    immensely focused, while being confident, tough and assertive throughout the
    week of practices were things I have never seen before, especially on a
    consistent basis.  Seeing how the Lynx
    practiced changed  what my own standards
    should now look like for practices. 
    Imagine everyday at practice, having the press/media there on site, all
    the time conducting interviews, writing about practice reports and any
    discrepencies between players or coaches. 
    Would that make you uneasy? It would for me.



    As I've
    hoped you noticed, the "CAT" principle was everywhere around me, from
    watching the pro's practice to Cheryl Reeve instructing, to the behind the
    scenes support staff.   They all followed
    that principle in their own way, making that choice and putting yourself out
    there to become a professional athlete or to coach a pro team.  Taking small action steps each day to become
    the best you can possibly be, or to be than you were previousl and trusting
    yourself daily to achieve your dreams and goals.



    Finally, it
    takes me to this conclusion.



    Flashlight or Laser



    The journey
    you choose to go on with sport or in your personal life, I learned that staying
    focused is truly valuable and the key to growth.  With focus comes being committed, invested
    mentally emotionall and physically, while becoming mature. I dare you to practice
    C.A.T. in your own way in which you feel that will help you create growth
    experiences for yourself.



    You have
    nothing to lose, make that choice, act upon it and trust yourself and others
    around you.  Begin to build bridges with
    people, and sometimes things may not always work in your favour, and bridges
    get burnt but these principles will always hold true on anything you decide you
    want, or want to change about your life and the experiences you want in your
    life.



    Remember,
    your mind can act as a flashlight shining at objects without real focus or your
    mind can act as laser, focused only on the most important details and the only
    way to grow the mind is by putting yourself in uncomfortable and challenging
    situations.



     



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